relay to make n/c into n/o output trigger

Wow, something is out of wack there with the windows being connected to the starter ?!?!  Time to re-wire and find the problem.

Just a note, I noticed there was some talk about the PINK accessory wire on the window modules...

If I'm not mistaken that PINK wire on the module(s) is not supposed to be connected to the accessory wire in the car but rather it is for another "accessory ITEM" like another window module or something else you would like to use on the ground when armed wire.'

I used a DMM on one of these modules and it seems the PINK wire is paralleled to the ORANGE wire, except that it is diode isolated I think.  Therefore you would connect a second module, starter kill, etc. to that wire and connect the ORANGE ground when armed output wire of an alarm to that wire.  I see that you have already figured it out but I just thought I'd add that note about the PINK wire on the window module.